If you always wanted something nice and elegant, then there are ways that it could be done without spending a whole lot of money. You don’t have to go to the courthouse to get married. You can get an officiant to come to you. All you have to do is have a location and find out if they will travel there. Find a nice park or restaurant where you can get married and book it or make reservations. Then book the officiant. I believe that it would be great to have pics so hire a photographer if it is within budget. If not, then ask the waiter, I am sure that they wouldn’t mind. Get a small cake or cute little cupcakes and if you want flowers, order a bouquet or make one yourself. It doesn’t take much to get married – all you need is someone to marry and an officiant. All of the other stuff is extra. Whatever you do, make it uniquely you.